A quote: "If you see people in uniform, take the time to let them know that you are thankful for their contribution to the country. They will probably respond with surprise because most have never been thanked for their service to America. We need to say it often.
"It is completely appropriate to ask if a family has a deployed member, but do not ask for any specifics, especially of the children. While we are curious about current events, it is never a good thing ask them where and when they will be deployed if they are waiting for orders. The military members and their families have been explicitly instructed not to share details of their deployments in order to protect crucial information that could fall into the wrong hands or cause speculation and rumors. "